I don't like to comment on arguments people have usually.
But there's been a lot of sniping, criticism and hurt feelings in the group.
And I have a few things to get off my "Size 88 on EDIT APPEARANCE" chest. :)
HATERS...
Like my uncle always says (and he really does say this), "If you can't say something nice about someone, shut the fuck up."
Respect that someone made something. Good or bad, they made it.
We're all amateurs. It's cool that they even tried.
There's a way to criticize someone without tearing them down. Learn to do it.
If you can make someone better and build them up at the same time, you've made a friend for life.
HATEES...
No one likes criticism. But if you do get criticized or satirized, take it this way:
You were important enough for someone to notice.
You created something worthy of another person responding to it, positive or negative.
And that's kind of cool.
Try to take all comments, with a grain of salt, whether they are positive or negative.
If someone doesn't like what you did, that's their problem
Just do what's in your heart and what makes you happy.
Love to you all,
Emanuelle
I agree 100% with your sentiments in this post. It's fantastic that everybody can create things here and so many do. Constructive criticism is great and can be provided without hurting someone's feelings. Sometimes I feel like smacking the snots that rudely dismiss others work. Thanks for standing up for everybody.
ReplyDeleteVery well said Sis! We are all real people behind the pixels and some just don't get it. SL is full of sociopaths and crap heads but you meet special people like you along the way that makes life so much better! =) kisses!!!
ReplyDeleteWell, I just read Ema's post, and I have one thing to say...
ReplyDelete"Size 88 on EDIT APPEARANCE" chest"? Hell yeah!
<3 ema
This is the best lesson I had here so far, from your action even before your words.
ReplyDeleteLove you too Ema
I couldn't agree more with you Em hugs and kisses and thank you oh and agrees with Hard also :P
ReplyDeleteI agree totally with you Em. In Spanish we say "the bad thing is that they dont talk about you".
ReplyDeleteWhen they talk, good or bad, you are making an impact on them. SO let them talk and keep their envies and crap.
Since I started about 6 months ago as a porn director, I have met great people like you, Quinn, Aurora among others.
yes! Let them Talk!
Hugs
Pelon